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By using our site, you acknowledge that you have read and understand our Cookie Policy , Privacy Policy , and our Terms of Service. Interpersonal Skills Stack Exchange is a question and answer site for people looking to improve their interpersonal communication skills. It only takes a minute to sign up. One of my closest girl friends that I dated for a while - and then remained close friends with even after we decided to just be friends - got married over the past two years and also just had a baby. I was invited to neither the wedding nor the baby shower. On my birthdays, she still sends me a nice Facebook chat message, and it's always nice to hear from her.

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How to Persuade My Ex to Meet Up With Me For Coffee

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Things were going well I thought but Her reason was because "I wasn't putting as much effort in to the relationship so I lost what I had" and "she wanted to go experience life" and other stuff along the lines of that. I called her up a week later and told that I'm working on myself and that she's still special to me, she acted like a total jerk to me over the phone and said she had to go.

Anyways, I started hitting up the gym, fixing my sleep schedule, focusing on school to get over her. Her friend happend to see me at the gym 2 days ago and asked how I've been doing, I said I still have feelings but I'm moving on and great things are happening in my life I got a text the next morning from my ex wanting to go for coffee next week, can someone maybe interpret what's happening?

I still have feeling for her and miss certain qualities about her but what she did was uncalled for and super selfish, she lost a lot of my trust. Okay So what is happening now is your ex's friend has probably told your ex about what you said to her and that your life is great with or without her.

This is going to make her really miss you hence why she asked for coffee. Now if you meet her and you want to get back with her you have to be very careful, You MUST act like you are happy, don't talk about your feelings to much and don't open up. If she knows she can have you back whenever she wants she will just play you man. You gotta act like your going to be happy with or without her and you may not even want her back, make her become completely infatuated by you.

Make her chase you to the point where all she thinks about is you. She met a guy while she was with you and got attracted to him, she either cheated on you with him OR she broke up with you so she could have her brains banged out by him.

Either way, he clearly left her high and dry, she's only coming back around because you are "safe" to her, and like all cheaters she feels entitled to you that not only will you forgive her but you will take her back. Even IF I'm off on my theory and I doubt I am , the way she broke up with you without any explanations was not just immature but incredibly cruel as well.

What are you hoping to gain if you agree to meet up with her Are you hoping she will take you back? Are you just lonely and wanting to fall back on old habits?

These are the questions only YOU have the answers to. I can say this if it were me in your shoes, I wouldn't agree to meet up her at all!

She seems toxic and all around like a spoiled little girl, not someone I would want to waste a 2nd of my time. Then again, I'm not you and you're going to do whatever the hell you want anyways so Don't go in there expecting she's changed or expecting a reconcillation, be very weary of her and her intetions.

She's wondering if she can wriggle back in after an unceremonious mistake. I would say keep the door closed. You sound like you have your act together already. Good job. Stay strong. She's an ex, move on with your life and stop looking back at the past. If your mind and body is constantly living in the past, then you cannot embrace the present and build for the future.

Answer Save. James Blackley Lv 7. Let me lay this out in laymens terms for you Your Uncle Dodge! Reject her offer. How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer. Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.

My Ex Asked Me Out! Help! What Do I Do

By Chris Seiter. He took your heart, threw it to the ground, stomped on it, and then took a sledgehammer to crush the remaining pieces to dust. Why would he want to meet up? Well, there is the obvious — you have things you need to exchange, or other business that needs to be tied up.

So me and my ex broke up three months ago. I have basically not spoken with her for the last month as I have been spending time trying to get my head screwed on straight and improve my own outlook. Over the last month there have been a couple of email back and forths but these have been light conversations and nothing at all about the relationship.

He contacted me over ten years ago at the same time I was looking for him. He had been mentioning to me for some time about how he wanted to move out of Oregon where we lived down to Utah because he had always wanted to live there. And I can't even say that its bad. I moved on and i did not go into another relationship. Thanks for all the responses, guys!

Ex wants to meet up for coffee... help!

Humans are creatures of habit. And one of the hardest habits to break is thinking about someone you had a romantic relationship or were in love with. Even if it ended badly, exes still want to know how their former significant other is doing, regardless of whether they are doing well or not. I remember when my ex asked me out, I was rather surprised and took the bait. What are you going to do? Only you do. Perhaps you were hoping on going on a date with your ex.

SHE AGREED TO COFFEE FACE TO FACE!

Things were going well I thought but Her reason was because "I wasn't putting as much effort in to the relationship so I lost what I had" and "she wanted to go experience life" and other stuff along the lines of that. I called her up a week later and told that I'm working on myself and that she's still special to me, she acted like a total jerk to me over the phone and said she had to go. Anyways, I started hitting up the gym, fixing my sleep schedule, focusing on school to get over her. Her friend happend to see me at the gym 2 days ago and asked how I've been doing, I said I still have feelings but I'm moving on and great things are happening in my life

Eventually, her desire to stay mad at you will fade and she will start to enjoy talking to you again. The more light-hearted and relaxed the interaction between you and her is, the less she will be able to hold on to her negative, angry feelings about you.

Ohhhhh man… What do you do? What does it mean? Do they miss you?

Why Would An Ex Boyfriend Want To Meet Up?

It's a nice thought: having coffee with your ex lover. Spending a few hours one afternoon across from the person you once gave your heart to, now older, wiser. Theoretically, it could be both progressive and comforting to find space for an old flame in your new life.

Go to Page Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. So i met with my ex earlier today. I was going in with the impression that i would spill all my emotions on the table at some point and apoligize and ask for her back and if she didn't take me back or atleast agree to take steps to build towards a new relationship i would walk and never talk to her again.

My Ex Wants To Hang Out…What Do I Do?!

To post a reply login or register. Hope you are well. I waited 2 hours, was at dinner… and responded Great, 4pm, at this place we used to go in her neighborhood. Just give her some time. Well, she went on her first date with another guy tonight. And, right after him, she was back to messaging other guys.

(girlfriend, how to). Why does my ex want to meet for coffee? Why does my ex want to meet for coffee. He contacted me over ten.

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