How to find a virgin girl to marry
I met up with my friend after long and was mildly irritated that she had no time to spare for me now that her wedding preparations were on in full swing. I kept thinking about it the whole night. They made a chill run down my spine. Do we truly live in the 21st century or are our mindsets still rooted in the 20th century? To satiate my curiosity I spoke to a few guys and I am sharing their opinion with you all. Marriage is a bond where trust and understanding are the key factors, the relationship drives on the sacrifices one makes for each other.SEE VIDEO BY TOPIC: അവൾ കന്യകയാണോ എങ്ങനെ അറിയാം - Virginity explanation - Malayalam - Nidhin's world - NR
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How to marry a virgin
As a call girl, I would seem to be the last person to know about such things. Actually, I'm not shocked to hear that almost one-third of Australian males in an FHM magazine survey dares to entertain this retro fantasy. In these hyper-sexed times, virginity is undervalued and a rarity where brides are concerned. I can't resist asking - were the FHM numbers "sexed up"? Well, let's just suppose they're accurate If you are a certain kind of feminist, you will be outraged.
You will see the glass half or 28 per cent empty. A new Dark Age is upon us. Visions of chastity belts and bloody sheets on the wedding night block out the two-thirds of men who sound reasonable. I tend to see each glass half full okay, okay - two-thirds in this case. So what we have here is a majority of men who probably don't want to know your entire sexual history - especially as this could include things you did last week with someone else.
A lot of men realise that the modern wife has a sexual past, and that's more than okay. As long as they don't know too much, they won't be asking for assurances of purity on the wedding night.
Since most women don't ask about every single detail of a man's sexual past, this seems a fair deal. So much for the manageable two-thirds. Those are the men most of us are likely to end up marrying.
But what about the men who think they would like to wed and therefore bed a virgin? These unlikely bridegrooms are not, perhaps, so different from customers I've had who want to see a first timer - a girl who's "never been paid before". I've been a first-timer so many times I've lost count.
A smart call girl never hesitates to comply with a harmless fantasy, and God knows, this is one of the easiest to deliver, involving no dangerously unstable chandeliers or intimidating sex toys.
The turn-on is in the lack of experience, and a big part of playing the part is looking the part. When you pretend to be a first-time call girl, you do not show up for the session wearing a black lace corset and seamed stockings.
Pastel undies, low heels, natural lip gloss and a pretty smile are de rigeur. It is also much easier to seem like a newbie in the morning. No idea why, but as it gets later in the day, inexperience is harder to fake. Most madams will schedule such dates for the daylight hours, and many a nooner has been improved by the enthusiastic sighs of a girl like me doing it "for the first time". The most politically correct call girls - sorry, sex workers - might disapprove of this subterfuge and say that a woman should be proud, not ashamed, of her sexual history.
I totally agree - be proud of your past. But you don't have to be so straightforward about it. And if you're really proud of all the sex partners you've had, you won't mind catering to a customer's virgin-fetish. Did I say virgin-fetish? Yes, I think this desire for a virgin even a real virgin, in the context of marriage is perfectly okay, as long as we recognise it for what it is: a sexual fetish. Incidentally, there as many ways to BE a virgin as there are virgins.
So who knows what the men in this survey really want when they say, "A wife with five or fewer sex partners. What defines a sex partner? If she only had phone sex with him, is he a sex partner? In the sex industry, there is the first time you get paid, and the first time you get paid to pretend you're being paid for the first time.
The latter is definitely more fun and it's usually more profitable. It was only after a thousand sessions as a call girl that I could appreciate the allure of innocence. Fortunately, it is never too late, and I've found that faking your "first time" is like faking an orgasm - without all the bells, whistles and peel-me-off-the-ceiling sound effects.
As an actual first-timer, I was abysmal, by the way. As an experienced pro, I really enjoyed getting into character for my customer and being the first-timer of my own fantasies as well as his.
But these men who want to marry a virgin - this is a far more serious business, you say. They won't be as tolerant as men who pay to be entertained because, after all, this is holy matrimony. Perhaps, but it seems that by placing the bar so high, a lot of men have "priced" themselves out of the marriage market. Maybe that's exactly what these wily fellows are playing at. Perhaps the men who say they want a virgin bride are aware they have asked for the moon. It sounds preposterous, I know, but men very often like to evade responsibility for their choices, or perhaps one-third of men do.
Ever since the beginning of time, there have been men who aren't marriage material, so perhaps the survey only reveals that a full 28 per cent of Australian men are passive-aggressive bachelors. That said, I think men are surprisingly practical creatures.
In this era of personal reinvention - rampant cosmetic surgery - perhaps a lot wouldn't care to ask how a woman's virginity is accomplished. Perhaps they've noticed that women think nothing of spending money to augment breasts and lips - so I've not yet had cosmetic surgery, but I spend oodles of time getting my hair and other things done. I find that sensible men will avoid a lengthy discussion about the beauty salon, so perhaps the whole question of HOW a woman manages to become a virgin will also be overlooked?
I certainly hope so. Any man who questions the matter too closely crosses a line. He ceases to be a fetishist whose needs can be met if you only know how to play along and becomes a fanatic. As we all know, fanatics are never satisfied and their needs are implacable. News Home. What kind of man wants to marry a virgin? Put another way, there is a first time for everything. Posted 6 Jun June , updated 29 Sep September Top Stories Coronavirus remains out of control in many parts of the globe.
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Whether it be for religious reasons, nerves, or just straight-up timing, some people choose to wait until marriage to have sex for the first time. And whether it's as magical as a double rainbow or awkward as an ob-gyn visit, one thing's for sure: Sex on your wedding night is anything but predictable. We waited until the night after the wedding, which was the first night of our honeymoon. We married young, so we rented a cottage about one hour north of home and stayed for four days. I had so many expectations and fears going into it.
I am a virgin girl. And I want a virgin husband too
I hail from a middle-class family in a small town in north India. I am 24 years old. I am a female student living in Pune and studying in the second year for my CA exams. But I find such discussions also pointless after a time. After all, your private sex life is just that. It looks like fun. But it's not my choice. Photo: Reuters. I have nothing against sex or girls having it.
9 Women Open Up About What It’s Really Like to be a Virgin Until Marriage
As a call girl, I would seem to be the last person to know about such things. Actually, I'm not shocked to hear that almost one-third of Australian males in an FHM magazine survey dares to entertain this retro fantasy. In these hyper-sexed times, virginity is undervalued and a rarity where brides are concerned. I can't resist asking - were the FHM numbers "sexed up"?